Dressing for Success in TEFL

Appearance is Everything?

People often ask me if appearance is important in TEFL?

They forgot rule #1 – TEFL is a job, an industry. It is not something that was created for English speaking Westerners to go on a lark for a year or two.

Of course appearance is important.

What about tattoos or piercings?

Teaching tends to be a more respected occupation overseas than at home. And, as such, schools often have a strong opinion about your appearance and how they would like it to be.

In Western culture, we tend to pride ourselves on the “rebel billionaire” look, and we know that dress and appearance really don’t measure the quality of our character. But . . . in many other cultures – appearance is paramount.

A Culture Lesson

In Korea, just as one example, a common saying is, “The first impression is everything.” Appearances are critical in many cultures. When I lived in Africa I would sometimes be surprised to see a man come out of his mud hut wearing a three-piece suit!

And notice that the Korean saying was not, “The first impression is important.” It is everything.

Dress nicely and professionally. It’s not difficult and will enhance your opportunities.

Our ideals are often not theirs. Play along, do what is required. Wear the slacks and tie. It is the gateway to so much more. Look at it as a culture game rather than something unpleasant.

Tattoos and More

Keep them out of sight. In some cultures, tattoos are symbols of the yakuza or mafia. In Thailand many local people have tattoos and foreign teachers often think that it is then okay. But the people with tattoos generally aren’t teachers.

As a teacher and as a foreigner, in most cultures/countries, you can expect to be closely observed, judged, commented on – and just generally the butt of gossip. Get used to it, understand it, and deal with it appropriately.

I know for many people showing such things off is a matter of pride and principle. They feel they should be accepted for who and what they are.

But other cultures don’t often have the same idea. In their country, they would like you to conform to their ideals. You will, I promise, limit your career and opportunities [in many countries] if you are not discreet.

TED’s Tips™ #1: Play along, it is the gateway to so much more.

TED’s Tips™ #2: Just like “back home” dress for the job you want, not the job you have.